Exploring Danielle LaPorte's The Desire Map again, I've remembered that it's not about goals, it's about how you feel about the goals. And feeling good, as LaPorte, says, "is the primary intention".
An older episode of This American Life titled "A Front" blew my mind with a story of border patrol disobedience. Reporter Debbie Nathan explored the wide variety of absurdist theater that happens when the US Border Patrol tried to question you far from the border, and why you can entertainingly refuse to answer their questions.